Friends, you know how it is when you have someone you really care for and you just want the best for them. You, because you care for and love them, would go out of your way to be there for them, and sometimes the recipients of such care and love are appreciative and value your efforts and sometimes they do not appreciate what you do for them. The problem with most people is that they allow the attitudes of those who do not appreciate them to impact their lives in a very negative way. Friends, the truth is, there will always be such people, for as long as God continues to exist there will be such people.
The key is to recognise that you are human and you do have certain limitations, selfish and inconsiderate people are really not of your making (unless you raise your kids to be like that), and you are not in control of bad attitudes. Recognise that you are your own person and that every other person is their own person, separate from you, you do not run the world and you are not in control of other people’s attitudes. Allow people to choose their own behaviour and way of doing things and always keep in mind that you have the exact same rights. You do not have to tolerate ill-mannered, unappreciative, selfish and weak people. People who refuse to appreciate you for you or the good you bring into their lives are just not worthy of your good and positive energy (Yes, you have good and positive energy, reality is your energy is neutral and it is in your hands to choose whether you will allow it to work for good.) The bottom-line is you are in control of a certain measure of energy and that energy, depending on your choice, will either bring good or evil. If you choose to bring good into the life of someone and they refuse to honour your positive contribution to their lives it is well within your rights to stop your flow of energy to them.
There are different levels of energy, different levels of impact, most people will never appreciate you until you had left and they feel the void your energy use to fill. Most of the time people stick around people who are selfish because they think they won’t find any better, but friends, there are six billion people on planet earth, and there is someone out there who will appreciate what you have to offer and are willing to give. Do not waste your time and energy with unappreciative idiots who do not want to acknowledge that you are a gift and a blessing to them. Spread your energy wings and fly, fly to fresh faces and new experiences.
The time you waste with selfish and ignorant fools you could have spent building new relationships and blessing others with your goodness, positivity and God-given skills and abilities. I know, those fools who refuse to appreciate you do not recognise that the energy that flows out of you whether in word or in deed, into their lives is God’s way of keeping evil, sickness and death from them. Friend, you are not responsible for the idiot who refuses to honour your contribution, allow them to choose their own destinies and you choose yours. There are fresh faces and considerate and appreciative individuals out there who will appreciate you and your positive energy.
“Your eyes are open to all the ways of men; You reward everyone according to his conduct and as his deeds deserve.” (Jeremiah 32:19 NIV)
Friends, God is aware of all people and all their works, whether good or evil, and God rewards everyone according to His own judgment. You are not expected to close your eyes to ill-mannered and unappreciative fools, trust your own judgment, and reward everyone as his deeds deserve.
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