''I know that there is nothing better for men (women) than to be happy and do good while they live.'' (Ecclesiastes 3:12)
It is the will of God for you to be happy and for you to enjoy your life. Most people want to be happy and enjoy their lives, but some just want that. God's intention behind your life is: yes, for you to enjoy your life and be happy, but for you to do good with the life God gave and blessed you with. Yes be happy, but also achieve as much good as you possibly can with your life.
Most people are preoccupied with sex and just want to have sex which is a pleasure and good and something created by God for your enjoyment, but you were not just created to have sex. God wants your life to be a positive, meaningful and good influence. It is the will of God for you to be connected to Him and for you to ask for His wisdom while you are alive.
'' Wisdom is a shelter as money is a shelter, but the advantage of knowledge is this: Wisdom preserves the life of its possessor.'' (Ecclesiastes 7:12)
Through God and His wisdom you will live long and your life will be a positive and good influence on this world. The wiser you are the longer you will live and the greater the good you will do. Yes, by living longer you will also be able to have more sex, but the idea is for you to live a productive life and for you to contribute more to this world than just sex.
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